by Abigail Van Buren
DEAR ABBY: 6 months ago, i acquired straight right back in contact with a youth buddy whom married at 17 and relocated away. She’s got a lot of household drama, most of it due to her alcoholism (which she claims is just a total outcome of PTSD).
Recently, she explained We have harmed her and I also’m an awful buddy because since we’ve reconnected, i’ve never ever once asked her about her past additionally the ordeals she actually is experienced. Abby, she covers by herself constantly. We never ever thought it had been required to ask her concerning the past because she never shuts up about this. We have attempted to be an excellent listener, but I do not think she’s made the most readily useful life alternatives, and I also do not wish to confront her with my views how she’s all messed up her life. Read more